Right now you may be irritated, frustrated or downright angry about the statement, “You have a choice”

Let me explain what  I mean by, you have a choice.  Our subconscious mind is running our life, in fact creating it.  Our conscious mind is only aware of a minuscule of what’s going on.  One of the jobs of our subconscious mind has is to keep us safe.  It has created a lot of dos and don’ts about what the best way to do this is.  You can call them beliefs, habits, even blinders.  These beliefs keep us exactly where we are in life, with everything, finances, relationships, adventure, health, you name it.  Even if we manage to slip up or down a bit we eventually come back to the safe zone.  The belief zone.  All of it nicely done by our subconscious mind.

How does this fit in with you always have a choice?

Here is how the subconscious mind keeps us from doing anything outside of that belief, I mean that is the danger zone.  We feel, afraid, vulnerable, like we are losing control, angry, sad, all kinds of emotions to keep us from doing that thing.  We say or think I can’t do that because I might fail, or I might look dumb, people will judge me, and on and on.  Our mind is capable of amazing mental gymnastics.  We easily can convince ourselves to stay “safe”

So the choice you have is are you willing to pay the price?  The price of looking vulnerable?  The price of failing? The price of being embarrassed? The price of being judged?

What is on the other side of that price?

Usually, something amazing.  Usually something lots of other people are doing.  Usually, a different life.  Did you know that almost every single successful person faced a price?  Walt Disney was fired from his job at a newspaper because he was told he lacked imagination.  Steve Jobs got fired from the company he helped create.  J.K. Rowling the author of Harry Potter was on welfare and unemployed and her first Harry Potter book was rejected by 12 publishers.  Oprah Winfrey was a teenage mother and told she was not fit for television. Michael Jordan was cut from his high school varsity team in his sophomore year.  There are so many more stories like this.

Having the life you want, the life you love means making a choice your subconscious brain has a belief about.  One that is keeping you stuck.

How do you get unstuck?

You have to decide on your intent, what is it you want?  Then start saying yes to what your higher power is bringing into your life even if you feel you can’t say yes.  Remember, your mind will do mental gymnastics to keep you safe. Safe from feeling ashamed, afraid, vulnerable you name it.

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